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A LITTLE HONESTY · A LITTLE HUMOR

Conversation or public relations?

From Happy, Joyous, and Free? by Jody Sachse.

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THE CARD

A thought for the day.

Am I having a conversation or managing public relations?

I used to give my stories a little upgrade so I’d sound more impressive. More acceptable. Whatever got me a place in the room.

Hell, my ego had a whole marketing department.

Today, I can tell the truth, listen, or offer an awkward smile.

I don’t have to sell myself a seat.

My worth isn’t on trial today.

THE LESSON BEHIND THE LESSON

I don’t have to sell myself a seat.

It’s tempting to give a story an upgrade when I’m worried the ordinary version of me won’t be enough. My ego is happy to put the whole marketing department on the job.

I can pause and tell the truth, even if it comes out awkward. I can listen to the other person instead of measuring how I’m landing in the room.

Being honest is a practice, and I won’t get it perfect every time. When I catch myself performing, I can come back to the conversation.

What would it feel like to let the unedited version of me be here?