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Accepting help

From Happy, Joyous, and Free? by Jody Sachse.

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THE CARD

A thought for the day.

Apparently, I’d rather chase a potato than accept help.

Picture refusing a hand with the groceries. Then the bag splits.

Excellent.

My independence is rolling down the driveway.

Accepting help doesn’t erase my effort. I can still do my part with somebody beside me.

Where could I say “Yes, thank you” before things fall apart?

THE LESSON BEHIND THE LESSON

Let somebody carry a bag.

I can be proud of doing my part and still accept a hand. Those groceries don’t get lighter because I announce that I’ve got it.

Recovery has taught me the value of people showing up for one another. Letting someone help doesn’t erase my effort; it gives us a chance to carry something together.

I don’t have to wait for the potatoes to roll down the driveway. A simple “yes, thank you” is a place to start.

Where might accepting help make today a little lighter?